🎩 Relationship Manners Test
How civilized are you as a partner? Measure your habits around courtesy and respect in 12 questions.
Why do small courtesies matter so much?
Relationships rarely wear down because of one big event; they're worn down or held up by small daily behavior. Putting the phone away mid-conversation, texting that you'll be late, cleaning the shared space, not making your partner the punchline in front of other people. This free relationship quiz looks at exactly those details and helps you see where the line between comfortable and careless sits for you.
What your score means
A low score doesn't make you a rude person; it usually reflects the ease that settles into a long relationship. Things that were automatic in year one get dropped as "obvious" later, and the other person experiences that as being unseen. For high scorers there's one risk: politeness quietly turning into never voicing what you need.
How to use it
This is just for fun, not a personality assessment or a diagnostic tool — it's an outside look at everyday habits. The best method is for both of you to take it separately and compare. The items where your answers don't match are usually the ones most overdue for a conversation.
The manners test is free and needs no account. It plays in your phone's browser, and the result reads better as a list of the small things you do without noticing than as a report card.